In all things there is but just one true love in life and that is the love of God and his son Jesus. To love God is to find the deepest meaning of love. If that is found and is true in your heart then loving another person will come easy. God should be first and foremost in all things. To follow is instructions for life (the Bible) and to focus on him will bring a person to the love the desire in their life. My heart serves God.