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Let's get better acquainted with Cheryl Lynn Remington as she shares an excerpt from one of her audio books.  Listen as she discusses her hopes and dreams the legacy that she wants to leave behind when she exits this world.

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Can you judge the character of a man by his outside appearance or by his thoughts? One you can see one you can not. How do you get to know the real man without spending a lot of time with him? Well if he is honest and truthful it is easy to find out. If he is a polished liar it may take some time to discover. In any case you need to ask very direct questions. A man of true and honest intentions will always answer the same way and say the same thing no matter how you ask the question. Do not be afraid to interrogate him if he becomes upset it does not matter, a man of integrity will not mind the questions. And he will enjoy the conversations; most men do not know how to speak with a woman. Find out what he is hiding and why, all men have secrets of one sort or another. If they can not trust you enough to reveal all then move on to the next one. If the man treats you different when his friends are around he is not willing to change to be with you. It is a sign that you are not important to him and you never will be. Ladies here's an easy one what does he do for you now, how does he treat you? Does he pamper you as a gentleman should treat a lady? Opens the door for you walks with you protects you. Does he prefer to be with you over his friends even with out sex before marriage? The truest way to test the character of a man is sex before marriage. It is not old fashioned or closed minded. It is the purest litmus test a woman has to use to determine a mans integrity Will he honor her during their dates before marriage? IF HE WILL NOT THEN THE MARRIAGE WILL BE A DISASTER. He is showing his true nature during the time of dating If all he wants is sex now he has no respect for you and he does not love you. All women say they want an honest man; this is the way to test that honesty An honest man will protect his wife to be; He would not consider using her for his sexual entertainment. Ladies even the first kiss before marriage is a test. The man is checking to see how much he can get away with. Then he will go and brag to his friends about how he got to you. It is not a matter of a French kiss or petting it is about his integrity and honesty. A man controls his thoughts and actions no matter what his age. If he can not exercise self control when he is young he will never be able to as he gets older and his wicked imaginations will only grow worse and lead to his family's destruction. All one has to do is look at the divorce statistics to see if this is true. If he can not or will not control his thoughts then he is a wicked man, this kind of behavior is inexcusable. It is a deal breaker. Leave him immediately before he hurts you. To continue a relationship with a wicked man that disrespects you in this way leads to divorce and disasters of every kind. Ladies he is thinking only about is own self and he will never change this pattern of behavior. The first lie is that he can not help himself he loves you so much that he must show that love thru a kiss or a feel or sex. It is a LIE a deal breaker a look at the true nature of the man and it is one that will only get worse with time. All women must understand this pattern of life will only get worse as he becomes more selfish over time; it truly reveals the wickedness in a mans heart. So I ask all women to use the test of sex before marriage the old fashioned and safest way to test your man. You must decide and be strong enough to stand for the best kind of man an honest one with integrity and strong morale character. Yes the old fashioned way is the only way to test your man. Can he pass this test? If not look out run for the nearest exit do not walk run and do not turn around. Free yourself from his trap

We Need Your Help Presently we are in the process of doing some research for our pod cast www.ur4alifetime.libsyn.com along with preparing to enter the land of public television. The topics that we will be dealing with will address all aspects of life. I need friends on JCFaith who are available to provide me with their honest opinions. If we can count on you please add us as your friend. Thanks for you time and consideration. Karlton Remington

Why is the life of a man measured by his integrity? What defines integrity? And from whom did we learn it? Only in one way can the integrity of a man be measured with clarity and accuracy. That is by his relationship with God. If there is no relationship there will be no integrity. He will not be able to adhere to any code of conduct. He will not have developed strong positive character traits. He will have no backbone to resist sin. He will allow all those around him to influence his actions and will blame all his problems on others instead of standing strong as a man. The strength of a man is measured by his ability to resist sin and protect his family. These characteristics of a man are defined all thru his life from those he comes in contact with. He is first trained in the home by his family or the TV, and then from outside the family by those he trusts or the school system with all the peer pressure involved. Why do we leave it to television and movies to train our sons to become men? There is no such thing as an instant man; we do not just become one with age or education. We learn our characteristics from those we idolize, our TV and movie heroes, and our friends. Is it any wonder the divorce rate is still climbing? Who is protecting the children and our families? If the father is not their protector then they are easy prey for anything that wants to destroy them. A father who stands with dignity and integrity as the leader and protector of his family is a real life hero and one of the very few alive today. I am calling all men to stand in their rightful place in the family and not to surrender control of our family to any outside influence. When God is honored first even when no one else would know or see then we are real men of integrity. You can do it men it is the toughest thing you will ever do in your life, but you can do it. Stand in the dignity God made you for, in his presence and give him glory and honor, your family will learn to do the same. Does our relationship with God control our relationships with our spouse and family? What if your spouse and children treated you the way you treat God? If your relationships need help please listen to our podcasts on www.ur4alifetime.libsyn.com We are also preparing to enter the land of public television more info will be following soon as we break forth into new territory to help others. Karlton Remington

A man is king of his home, there for the man is also the JUDGE and he must act with wisdom. Integrity must be found in his heart and thoughts. You can not protect your family if you do not discern what is right and wrong. Does a man tell his children to act one way and he goes out and does the opposite can he expect more from his wife than he is willing to give. When a man loses his integrity he will lead his family to destruction. Men we have a family for one reason only, which is to train up righteous children. Can your family look at you and declare that you are a man of integrity. One who will not fail even when no one else would know what you had done was wrong. A man is accountable for his thoughts and actions. No one else is responsible for them and no one else can control them. The reason for our divorce rate being so high in the world today can be traced to this one word. INTEGRITY no one wants to be responsible for their own actions. I am now calling all men to accountability for their own actions and thoughts. We must turn from our path of destruction before we destroy our family. A real man will stand with Integrity, Dignity, and Loyalty as the leader then in the eyes and heart of his family he will be a king. Karlton Remington