Nov 13 2008, 6:31 pm - By New_Vision_Baptist_Church

Sex (seks) n. 1: Male or Female;2:The sexual urge or instinct or sexual desire as it shows in behavior itself.
Alternative Definition: A three letter word with some really l-o-n-g range consiquences

I am sure we have all pondered these questions:
Is all sex a sin? 
            &nb sp;  Why should you wait?
Can you do everything but have sex?
             Whats so bad about it if you really love the                   &nb sp; person and have protection?
Does the Bible say anything to teens about sex?
        
      "So God created....male and female...God blessed them and said Be Fruitful"

Physical hunger can be wasily satisfied by eating some food. However, the sex drive is not like hunger and intercourse isn't a turkey sandwich. SEX IS NOT JUST PHYSICAL ITS SPIRITUAL TOO.

God invented sex hedesigned hormones that spark your desire he designed every pleasure sense we have  sex is not wrong  sex is good it is a gift from God ...now i know what you are saying they why can't we have it all the time well.....keep reading 

God's design for sex is very specific  ONE MAN ONE WOMAN WITH IN LEGAL BONDS OF MARRIAGE 

how special do you want sex to be with the person you marry? How much do you want to be "one" with him or her think of it this way if i have a piece of chocolate and i mush it in my hands i pass it around i maybe cough on my hands and mush some mucus in the chocolate now how appealing is that chocolate to you now ....now say i hold that chocolate out mush and used in one hand and a fresh wraped never opened piece of chocolate in the other which one do you want to give your husband or wife the man or woman who has decided that you alone are what they want enough to make that full commitment before God ....
            &nb sp;          "this is bone of my bone flesh of my flesh for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife  and they will become one flesh" Gen 2:23-24



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Nov 13 2008, 7:29 pm - Replied by: charitie

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Thanks for posting, well said....great message.

 

Nov 18 2008, 8:32 pm - Replied by: ChristianSoldier777

its sad though that most people don't know that, even tho 80% of americans profess to be christian but only 20 or so are true christians.

Nov 20 2008, 4:49 pm - Replied by: Bsdsoccer

ahhh!! THANK YOU SO MUCH for posting this!! teens really need to know this stuff, and that little story about the chocolate is perfect to capture thier attention!

Dec 07 2008, 3:47 pm - Replied by: Matthew_14

Yeah the anology of the chocolate gone stale is great. Loosing its value, same thing said if we were to wrongly have sex.

Dec 07 2008, 7:12 pm - Replied by: charitie

so  the..... Alternative Definition: to A three letter word has some really l-o-n-g range consiquence.

 

Can those Long range consiquences become a reality any other way than by physical experiance?

is there a way to inspire the young ones into romancing the stone till it turn?

I mean... instructions that are clear as chrystal and will help them find the one that thinks and beleives as they need them to.

two May not cross paths untill they are first aware they are searching for each other first.

 

 

Dec 11 2008, 1:16 pm - Replied by: eternitylost

am i gunna die and go to hell if i keep doing IT.
i dont see why theres anything wrong with it.
God's Bible is just as Lucifer's.....
wats wrong in beleving in something difrent.
the bible only tells us that hell is a lake of fire cuz jesus doesnt want us to go there.
where lucifer tells us plainly he doesnt want us into heaven.
 jesus uses things like this to cover up wats truly wrong in the world....ourselves.
wich is why i dont post blogs or bullitens telling ppl that there wrong for something their not.
I do believe in G-d but
 its not our job to tell ppl they r wrong.

but thats just my opinion.
lemme know what yall think of it.

Dec 11 2008, 2:29 pm - Replied by: MattAt

I have gone throught the whole Puritly classes and everything and I believe in waiting untill Marriage. Although I had a period of time where I strayed from my Purity Commitments I have recommited myself to it since then... Just sex before marriage isn't the only thing being pure can still refer to PDA and other things...I believe that it especially goes towards younger people like Teen-Agers cause they are the most immature about it and don't trully understand the consequences of getting physical with that special someone...I think I'm just babbling so I am done with what I am saying...

Dec 11 2008, 3:04 pm - Replied by: TrumpetCallofGod

10/28/04 - From God the Father, A Letter Given to Timothy - For Timothy and His Wife, and For All Those Who Have Ears to Hear

Question asked by Timothy: Lord, have we acted wrongly in our sex life?

Answer from God the Father:

When lying together, remember the decrees of God concerning these things of sex and intimacy:

You shall not lie with another outside of marriage...with your spouse only shall you lie.

Even sex before marriage, called fornication, is adultery.

You shall not think of others, but your spouse only, nor of unnatural acts.

You shall not lie with your wife during her monthly shedding of blood.

You shall not partake in sodomy.

You shall not behold others in sin (pornography) with your eyes. To do so is to sin with them.

No man or woman, in all creation, shall lie with another of their same gender. This is abomination in the eyes of the Most High and full of blasphemy! I gave unto man, by Adam, woman. From his side did I form her, and he who was one became two, and they two became one again in marriage...two of one flesh...man and woman. I saw that it was very good.

Dec 11 2008, 3:06 pm - Replied by: TrumpetCallofGod

11/23/05 - From Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - A Letter Given to Timothy, For All Those Who Have Ears to Hear

Thus says the Lord to His people, who abide in marriage as they should:

As I have given up of My body for all those I love, even unto death, likewise should all those, who love one another, love them as I have loved you. In all ways did I submit unto My bride, which is also My body, even unto the relinquishing of My power over her, nor did I judge My bride. Because of this, she has become My bride. In the same manner, she must give of herself unto Me to make the union complete and everlasting. The Father has given her hand to Me, and I have called unto her, saying, “How I long to gather you into My arms, and love you as My own, and make you My bride. Come and see...I have already prepared a place for you. Become My virgin and accept these robes of white, and walk in them and wear them well, so we can walk together in the Garden, forever and ever.”

Now listen with ears open: As I have done, do likewise, for any bride joined must be cleansed and made fit for her husband. Also, all earthly husbands must also become clean, lest your holy union be unclean. The Father gave you marriage, by which you come together as one, in His name.

So then, when there is division or separation, how then can two come together, as one in the flesh, when a division in spirit remains? I have told you already, and you also know within your hearts, that all those in marriage must first come together in spiritual intimacy, closer than flesh. Then can you fulfill this closeness through that which is fleshly. This is also a gift from the Father and should be treated as such, according to how He has commanded you and how you should receive it and experience it.

Those in marriage can reach new heights of ecstasy through the unification of flesh. Only by this union, being that which is a completion, or a finishing, of love’s desire that you become completely one, because you had first become one in the Spirit, with all thankfulness to God for bringing you together in His name, under His commandments.

One can not give into complete abandonment of oneself, melding into the love of another, unless first absolute trust is established. Trust is earned, not given. So all those, who first trust in God because of what He has done by way of Me, have placed the Cornerstone in their marriage...and from this Foundation can all new and shining houses be built, and those that already exist be strengthened.

When one of you two has an obstacle or stumbling block, then you both have fallen; and as two together, as one, must all these adversities be overcome. All those, who overcome together in Me, will receive even greater things than these which they now think will lead them into happiness. As We, the Father and the Son, are long-suffering, so then shall you be...love is patient.

Remember that any rent, which is not quickly mended, is made worse with time, further tearing away from the fabric of your marriage. Mend all rents speedily, and with a greater thread, and with more tender hands than in the past.

As all things are made new in Me,
so then, all those, who believe in Me,
must be remade in My image, walking in My ways...

so goes restoration in marriage...

your marriage of old must die
and be forgotten through forgiveness,
and be completely remade on a new foundation...

This is a process, My beloved little ones.

Dec 11 2008, 3:10 pm - Replied by: TrumpetCallofGod

FOR A TEENAGER FROM THE LORD JESUS' MOUTH

 

6/12/06 - From Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - A Letter Given to Timothy, For Jessica(13 yrs old) and For All Those Who Have Ears to Hear

[Jesus:] Faith Jessica, beloved daughter of Timothy, daughter of God, do you not know the ways of the Lord and the love for His children? Do you not understand the ways of the sanctified?

Faith Jessica, love your God with all your heart, with all your mind and all your soul. And how you shall love Him is to love and believe in His Son, and follow His ways, and obey His commands.

My first command to you is to love everyone, especially those who have hurt you. The greatest love of all is to die for those who hate you, for I did not come just to die for My friends and those who love Me, I came to give up My life for those who hate Me, and for those who do not know Me, and for those who know of Me but wish to have nothing to do with Me, who hate My name and the sound of My voice, so in time they may come to know Me and hear Me. And when this day comes, there will be great rejoicing, for I had already saved them and forgiven them by My blood, though they did not ask. It was the Father who asked of Me that it be done for their sakes...the will of the Father, their true Father, who made them and loves them, of which they had life in the beginning, then died because of sin...now revived to life because of Me. Through Me are all things established in life and given breath...My breath I have placed within them. It is God’s will that none are lost, but that all are saved and come to repentance. I have called to them, and the Father shall draw them by His Spirit, which He has poured out. And all, who drink from His cup He has poured, shall come to Me...I am that Cup! I am the Cup of Your Salvation! I am the Cup that shall be placed in the hands of your mother. Lo, I am already there...she has yet to drink.

Jessica, My faithful, who has come to live in Me, listen to what your fathers says, for He speaks to Me and I to him. He is coming to know what I know, for I do teach him continually. So then, My beloved little one, hear and understand, and receive My words which are also My love, the very same as the love of a father for his child, which you are of Timothy and Brenda, and also Amy by her union with Timothy. First you were Mine and remain My child, for I gave you to them, just as God has given them to Me and you also. You remain in My love, and I shall never leave you, nor those you love. I came to seek and to save the lost...I am here! And all, who will come to Me, shall hear My voice, and My Father shall make it possible for them to do so. He shall, indeed, remove all stumbling blocks from the path of the wicked, who shall become the redeemed and righteous, for these shall come out of great tribulation and be established in life also. For even those, who arrive last, shall receive the same reward as those who went before. In that Day, many who would be first shall be last, and those who were last shall be first.

So then, My beloved little one, I do not ask you to die for those who hurt you...this I have done already. I ask you to love those who have hurt you, and to love them is to forgive them, as I have forgiven them and you. Faith, you shall indeed come to live with your father, and He shall teach you many things. And you shall share in My joy and love as I have poured it out on you. And you shall also receive of My love from your father, who shall teach you of My love, by giving you his love which is according to My love.

Beloved child, receive My love, and show your love by obeying My commands and following My ways. Keep your virgin, for it is a most precious gift, a gift reserved for sharing only with your husband. Once lost, it may not return to you. Keep your gift, for once it is revealed to your husband, you shall increase in joy and know the blessings of love in marriage, sanctified and blessed of God as it was given and meant to be, a sanctuary in union between a man and woman, apart from the world, love fulfilled in the spirit and body...they two now become one, of one body and of one spirit, in the love of marriage under God, living together as one in life lived in Christ, who is the Centerpiece of all happiness and life, life without end. Amen.

My little one, heed and partake of My words...yea, devour them daily. They are your nourishment in your time of need. I am the Bread of Life! Those, who eat of Me, shall never go hungry. So then, heed My words, and obey your parents and honor them... this is the first command of promise for all children. To honor them is to honor Me, and to honor Me is to honor Him who sent Me.

Do you not know, little one, all things, hidden and kept in the dark, have already become a lie; and all things, that you feel must be hidden, are not of the Truth? Even so, all that is hidden shall be brought into the light. So if you act in such a manner that is in secret, and keep hidden that which you are ashamed of, you have already judged within yourself that your actions are sin. To keep secrets from your parents is sin, for you have lied to them without ever opening your mouth, and this is to dishonor your mother and your father. If that which you do is done in a corner, where none behold it, it is wrong, for all who sin wish to hide what they have done, so they will not be found out.

But all those, who have done that which is well and good, bring forth what they have done into the light for all to see, so they may please their Father, and He will surely be pleased with them. All temptation leads to sin, and sin to pain; and that, kept in secret, only leads to vexation of spirit. But all things, done in sin, are not hidden from Me...one can not lie to the Spirit. Even that, which vexes your spirit, fear not. Bring it forth and give it to Me. Let Me carry all your burdens, even all that hinders you. Jessica, My Faith, I forgive you. You only need speak to Me, and accept My forgiveness, and forgive yourself also...and be joyful. Turn to Me for all things, and I shall keep your feet from stumbling.

Faith called Jessica, here is wisdom. Following one’s desire for love is not sin, but giving into temptation, which is against the commandments of God, is sin, and will only lead to pain. Physical love is reserved unto marriage as a special gift, whose outcome leads to great and lasting depths of love in marriage, bringing forth more gifts from God in the form of your children, who are the fulfillment of that love, being equally you and your husband in them. Oh. what joy to those, who have the blessing of children. Even those who have not conceived, or were not able, who have complete faith in Me, shall receive many children in My Kingdom to come. To all children is the Kingdom assured.

Blessed are they, who bless the name of the Lord;
and happy are those, who have His name perpetually on their lips....
life without end to all those, who call on the name of the Lord,
forever striving to walk in His ways and keep His commandments,
fully partaking of the fruit of the Spirit.

My Kingdom is coming...all My sparrows shall fly to Me. Amen.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,
goodness, faith, gentleness, humility, meekness and self-control. Against such things there is no Law.
Those, who belong to Christ Jesus, have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires.
Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other." ~ Galatians 5:22-26