Ok, for those of you out there who are spiritually minded, can you answer this question for me? How do I submit and yield my very stubborn, strong-willed self to God's plan for my life? Furthermore, how do I see submisison as an equal part with my spouse, and not as me beneath him? How do I not allow all the men from my past to stop me from letting two people who love me very much and care about my spiritual growth into my life, and take their correction without shutting down and wanting to run?