Can you judge the character of a man by his outside appearance or by his thoughts? One you can see one you can not. How do you get to know the real man without spending a lot of time with him? Well if he is honest and truthful it is easy to find out. If he is a polished liar it may take some time to discover. In any case you need to ask very direct questions. A man of true and honest intentions will always answer the same way and say the same thing no matter how you ask the question. Do not be afraid to interrogate him if he becomes upset it does not matter, a man of integrity will not mind the questions. And he will enjoy the conversations; most men do not know how to speak with a woman. Find out what he is hiding and why, all men have secrets of one sort or another. If they can not trust you enough to reveal all then move on to the next one. If the man treats you different when his friends are around he is not willing to change to be with you. It is a sign that you are not important to him and you never will be. Ladies here's an easy one what does he do for you now, how does he treat you? Does he pamper you as a gentleman should treat a lady? Opens the door for you walks with you protects you. Does he prefer to be with you over his friends even with out sex before marriage? The truest way to test the character of a man is sex before marriage. It is not old fashioned or closed minded. It is the purest litmus test a woman has to use to determine a mans integrity Will he honor her during their dates before marriage? IF HE WILL NOT THEN THE MARRIAGE WILL BE A DISASTER. He is showing his true nature during the time of dating If all he wants is sex now he has no respect for you and he does not love you. All women say they want an honest man; this is the way to test that honesty An honest man will protect his wife to be; He would not consider using her for his sexual entertainment. Ladies even the first kiss before marriage is a test. The man is checking to see how much he can get away with. Then he will go and brag to his friends about how he got to you. It is not a matter of a French kiss or petting it is about his integrity and honesty. A man controls his thoughts and actions no matter what his age. If he can not exercise self control when he is young he will never be able to as he gets older and his wicked imaginations will only grow worse and lead to his family's destruction. All one has to do is look at the divorce statistics to see if this is true. If he can not or will not control his thoughts then he is a wicked man, this kind of behavior is inexcusable. It is a deal breaker. Leave him immediately before he hurts you. To continue a relationship with a wicked man that disrespects you in this way leads to divorce and disasters of every kind. Ladies he is thinking only about is own self and he will never change this pattern of behavior. The first lie is that he can not help himself he loves you so much that he must show that love thru a kiss or a feel or sex. It is a LIE a deal breaker a look at the true nature of the man and it is one that will only get worse with time. All women must understand this pattern of life will only get worse as he becomes more selfish over time; it truly reveals the wickedness in a mans heart. So I ask all women to use the test of sex before marriage the old fashioned and safest way to test your man. You must decide and be strong enough to stand for the best kind of man an honest one with integrity and strong morale character. Yes the old fashioned way is the only way to test your man. Can he pass this test? If not look out run for the nearest exit do not walk run and do not turn around. Free yourself from his trap

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